Professional Services

As a private client your customer journey will be guided by a structured flow following the steps which we will have agreed on in our initial meeting. The initial session also serves to inform about the key modules which you can book in order to put together your very own customised matchmaking pathway. How each module will be delivered is also tailor-made to your wishes. This makes your customer journey unique by profiting from the full service consultancy concept of Positive Partners©.

Individual modules can also be booked by (premium) exclusive members , such as the preparation for dating situations (e.g. the module Date Coaching & Date Debriefing) or the reflective analysis of previous patterns of preferred partner prototypes.

1. Initial Session

Firstly, we will decide side by side if we you as a client and me as a psychological matchmaking professional are the best match for your matchmaking journey. If we both decide to embark on your matchmaking journey, the remainder of the first session will be dedicated to outlining the individual modules and procedures on offer and to answer in depth all questions which you may have concerning the entire matchmaking process.

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2. Personality profililng on a 360 degree basis

The principal journey begins by specifying your profile and defining the profile of your ideal partner accordingly.

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3. Heart-khunting & Psychological Screening

Having specified the search profile in step 2 Positive Partners© proactive search mission starts by activating relevant agencies, ambassadors, scouts and our internal file of exclusive members. Like a brokerage Positive Partners© searches broadly and screens deeply before recommending to which match you should dedicate your precious time.

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4. Profound Screening

If desired, a cooperating investigative service can be consulted to verify the information givien by potiential partners in depth.                                           

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5. Happy Beginnings via Psychological and Logistic Date-Planning

Positive Partners© organises your first dates, subsequent dates and short trips with matching candidates. If you wish we also organise a Concierge Service at exclusive seaside locations at the Cote d'Azur or the German Riviera.

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6. Date-Coaching & Date Debriefing

Positive Partners© prepares all private clients and those exclusive members who opt for booking this module. Thereby, every date can be reflected upon. Together we will review how the date resonates within you emotionally and how you want to progress following the motto "You never date alone".

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7. After Match Services

Once matched you have the opportunity to prolongue your initial journey in order to profit from professional coaching in the transitional phase. As the trusted psychological expert who knows you and your new partner through the matchmaking process I may remain by your side to overcome challenges which the new partnership might encounter once everyday life takes over.

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Initial Session

Irrespective of which part of this beautiful world you call your primary residence, I will visit you in person, to get to know you in vivo, to outline the matchmaking process in detail and answer all questions which you may have. Visiting you in your own home already gives me insights into your style and personality. These first impressions will be integrated into my subsequent search for the partner who fits into your world. Alternative to welcoming me at your home, the first session can also take place at one of Positive Partners@ business suites.

This first personal encounter offers client and expert the opportunity to experience one another live and to assess if we are the best match for your matchmaking journey.

Contrary to conventional complimentary marketing incentives, the first session bears a charge.The financial commitment and the mutual investment of quality time for the initial session are a symbol of seriosity.

Personality profiling on a 360 degree basis

Once you and I have decided to team up for your matchmaking journey, the essentials of matchmaking begin by profiling your personality, core beliefs and everything that makes you unique. When profiling your personality I want to find out what inspires you, what truly makes you happy and what you have so far avoided. Instead of ticking off a box which asks if you have a sense of humour I want to understand on a deeper level what kind of personal humour characterises you and where its limits begin. My mission is to understand you better than you understand yourself and to enable you to gain valuable ingights about yourself in a dating context.

This involves the use of specialised techniques from coaching which may resemble methods applied in humanistic psychotherapy. However, Positive Partners© does by no means offer psychotherapy in a strict sense. However, if you were already in previous relationships, coaching might be helpful in order to reflect on past patterns. That entails looking back at whether you chose or were chosen, to extract what made you happy in previous relationships and what you might have missed so far. That way, we can specify the ingredients of your ultimately fulfilling relationship.

If you suffer from a clinically relevant diagnosis it is recommended that you first engage in psychotherapy in order to find your own balance and therafter open up to inviting a new partner into your life. Due to possible role-collisions however, I cannot be your psychotherapist. Hence, my mission is to coach all in all "healthy personalities" using psychological skills.

The search for your ideal partner will be led by external and internal search criteria. That is why it is important for me to find out, what renders another person internally and externally beautiful in your eyes.

Due to my long professional history as a psychotherapist, my ears have heard almost everything that might seem untellable to some. That is why you can frankly talk to me about physical and sexuall attraction and practices if you so wish. Furthermore, we will define collaboratively in which intellectual, moral, psychological and emotional aspects you are seeking to find someone who resembles yourself or who is different for the benefit of providing a counterbalance or addition to what you bring already to the partnership.

This mindfully tailored process of defining your desired partner profile allows for a highly individualised, refined and human search which algorithm-following machines and lay matchmakers cannot deliver to the same extent.

Heart-Hunting & Psychological Screening

What sounds romantic is nothing but the time-intensive search for your personal positive partner. As a private client you will be my only client for the duration of your search. That means that I will not engage in parallel searches for several clients but focus on searching for that special person only for you! This distinguishes Positive Partners© considerably from other introduction agencies.

Similar to headhunting for the most qualified person to guarantee success in business contexts, I will be searching for that special someone who qualifies for the most important private lifetime position by your side.

Contrary to other agencies our file of exclusive members will first be consulted. It consists of hand-picked and throroughly screened profiles following the motto "class instead of mass".

Much more important is the fresh and current search for your positive partner which is a very time-intensive endeavour. While you can devote yourself to meaningful or enjoyable aspects of your life, the network of Positive Partners© will engage in searching on a wide scope without knowing the identiy of the person they are searching for. By pre-screeing those you apparently match at first sight and only recommending candidates of best fit I spare you the time and potential disappointment conventionally spent with mismatches. You only invest time in promising matches.

The personal pre-screening of all potiential parter personalities makes Positive Partners© your mediator and translator who can pose relevant questions which you might have on behalf of you in order to filter out the very best positive matches before deciding who you wish to encounter in vivo.

Profound Screening

Positive Partners© will meet with every potential match before presenting the match to a private client. In addition, a cooperating investigative service can be consulted to verify the information provided by a potential match in order to increase statement validity.

Happy Beginnings via Psychological and Logistic Date-Planning

Sometimes planning a first date can already be challenging. That is why at Positive Partners© we can take on the logistics of date planning. If you have already had several dates with the same candidate and wish to spend more time with each other, there is the option of booking two maritime residences with sea view, the tower-suite and the tower penthouse which are in about 300 m distance from one another. That way you can decide spontaneously how much time and proximity you want to share and when each of you wants to retreat into your own seaside residence to refresh or reflect.

Date-Coaching & Date-Debriefing

Particularly those whose dating experiences are long ago or could have been much better will profit from Positive Partners©  individual psychological preparation for and debriefing of prospective dates with potential matches. You will be introduced to themes and behaviours which are conducive to establishing a positive rapport on a first date and those which should better be avoided.

This service enables our international clientèle to ameliorate their dating expertise continuously, as for example not every commercially successful tech-personality knows how to programme oneself interpersonally for dating encounters. Positive Partners© optimises future searches and can refine the next steps even more effectively by learning from your dating experiences, attributes you liked in candiates and wishes which may still be open and can be considered in subsequent introductions.

After-Match-Service

I am willing to stay by your side way beyond the initial matchmaking process to ensure that your shared happiness will endure. After-match coaching can be regular, monthly, annual or limited to on-call situations when a concrete challenge arises.

Mindfulness-based coaching will equip you with a hightened awareness which intensifies every moment of your sentiment of being in love. Sensorically meaningful experiences can be anchored in your memory on a deeper level. That way you will always remember your first kiss or the day of your wedding on a more profound feeling level rather than melely the factual memories. Consequently, you will be able to tell your grandchildren about such precious memories as if they have happened just yesterday.

If you wish I will accompany you via our individualised After-Match-Servicewhich will convey to you as a freshly matched couple how you can keep the intial spark alive. In addition, you will find solutions for typical challenges which couples face as well as specific, individual challenges such as how to harmonise life with in-laws, existing children or how to be culturally mindful if you have chosen a partner from another cultural background.